Kristen Casey Co-founder of LemonRose Golf taking in the scenes and greens at Philadelphia Cricket Club for the Truist Championship.
You have one chance to make a first impression. These are words that I live by. We live in a fast-paced, instant gratification driven world. Which means whether you like it or not, your personal style says something about you before you have the chance to introduce yourself, or even say a word or shake a hand. It's been said that it takes seven seconds for someone to form a first impression of you. Psychologists actually have noted that these first observations are not solely about appearance but also how trustworthy, approachable, and even how qualified you may be. So, the way you walk into a room, whether it be a boardroom, an office, a classroom or a coffee shop, matters. It sets the tone for what people immediately think of you. I am not at all saying that you need to be wearing expensive clothes and accessories or that you have to be sporting the newest and latest trend. First impressions are not superficial, it is a non-verbal way of communication. It's all about expressing yourself in a way that makes you feel confident and lets the best, most authentic version of you walk into that room. Think of it as an extension of your personality. When you leave the room, the people you met won't necessarily remember that you wore an emerald green skirt and a crisp white oxford tucked in, showing the gold belt that matched those new gold heels perfectly and the whole look was complimented by that fabulous statement necklace that has been your favorite piece of late. But they will remember how you made them feel and how they felt about you when you confidently walked in that room. It's about intention.
First impressions in life are a great parallel to first impressions on the golf course, especially if you're new to the game. Golf can be an intimidating sport, especially for women and especially around seasoned golfers. The first time I picked up a club, I may not have had a great stance, the longest drive or even made contact with the ball half the time but I made sure I looked like I’d been playing for years. Why? Because I’m a true believer that if you look the part and show up in something that makes you feel beautiful and confident, you’ll be in the best mindset to play your best game- even if it's your first round ever. I say show up respecting the dress code of the game and the specific course you're playing add some personal touches and you’ve already had a personal victory. You showed up. Read the blog titled "You Don't Have to Be Great - You Just Have to Start: 10 Tips For Beginner Golfers."
Kristen Casey Co- founder of LemonRose Golf wearing timeless, versatile pieces while at brunch in New York City
So whether you're meeting someone new, stepping into a meeting or stepping up to the tee box, your first impressions matter. Think of style as a tool for confidence and connection. Show up representing yourself the way you want to be perceived. And remember, you belong there. Whether it be in life or on the course, be confident!